You speak words, and they alter the universe. By merely speaking you can create damage and pain, cause tears to fall, drive people away, make yourself feel better, make your life worse.
“I want someone who is fierce and will love me until death and knows that love is as strong as death, and be on my side forever and ever. I want someone who will destroy and be destroyed by me.”
Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jeanette Winterson